Wednesday, October 30, 2013

Confessions Of Someone Who Does Not Love The Bible….At Least Not Like I Should

Confessions Of Someone Who Does Not Love The Bible….At Least Not Like I Should

I don’t love the Bible…at least not like I should.  I don’t treasure it like I should.  I don’t hold the Bible in as high esteem as I should.  As an American Christian, I have become far too casual with the Spirit-breathed Word of God.
I read my Bible daily which would impress many of my Christian friends.  But do the words daily pierce my soul and change my file.  I must sadly confess that far too often I view daily study more out of duty than love.
I have falsely convinced myself that daily Bible study and devotions are part of spiritual disciplines.  If the truth were known, it is more checking activity off a box than having a transformational experience.
These thoughts came into focus today as I watched the video below entitled “Chinese Christians See The Bible For The First Time”.
http://youtu.be/4LcEDPRfHMY
As I watched the video, I thought, “What is wrong with me?  I don’t love the Bible like that.  God please forgive me for not cherishing Your Word for the treasure it truly is.”
The Center For Bible Engagement released a study in 2009.  It revealed the following:
If you read your Bible just four times per week you had a:
  • 228% higher odds of sharing your faith.
  • 231% higher odds of discipling others.
  • 416% higher odds of giving to church.
You were also:
  • 57% less likely of getting drunk.
  • 68% less likely of sex out of marriage.
  • 74% less likely to engage in gambling.
Only two things will last for eternity – God’s Word and the souls of men.  How do you feel about the Bible?
Thanks to my friend Kevin Cross, Stewardship Pastor of Fellowship Bible Church, for sending me the video and statistics.

Tuesday, October 29, 2013

Leaders Cannot Experience True Success Without Doing These 3 Things

Leaders Cannot Experience True Success Without Doing These 3 Things

There are four must-watch television shows on my weekly calendar.  One is ABC’s Shark Tank.  This show in which aspiring entrepreneurs make sales pitches to venture capitalists (sharks) has become one of America’s most popular reality shows.  I would go as far to say it is the most popular reality show with leaders because it takes us into real-life business meetings.
In the November issues of Fast Company magazine, writer Taffy Brodesser-Akner takes us behind the show’s scenes and gives us insight into how apex leaders think.  The biggest lesson for me was what true success really is for these leaders.
True success comes from making others successful.  The following are 3 Practices Of Leaders Who Make Others Successful:
Leaders Make Others Successful By Providing Them A Platform – Leaders, are you secure enough to shine the spotlight on others?  Do you elevate those on your team in the eyes of people or do you have to be the center of attention?  Kevin O’Leary, one of the show’s sharks, said, “Shark Tank is a platform.  You can launch a product or service where tens of millions of people see it.”  Successful leaders know the more stars you create in your company, the more successful your company will become.
Leaders Make Others Successful By Improving Their Financial Status – There is nothing more contagious in any organization than generosity.  Generosity creates a culture of collaboration and a desire to see others succeed.  Greed, on the other hand, builds fences, erodes trust, and creates an environment where scarcity and survival prevail.  O’Leary goes on about a company he invested in called Wicked Good Cupcakes, “They [had been] doing $16,000 a week.  Within seven days of appearing on Shark Tank, their sales grew to $280,000.”
Leaders Make Others Successful Help Make THEIR Dreams Come True – Do you know the dreams of those on your team?  I always had a dream to write a book.  That dream became reality with this month’s release of The 10 Indispensable Practices Of The 2-Minute Leader.  I will be forever indebted to The Rocket Company’s executive leaders, Casey Graham and Michael Lukaszewski, for helping make the book’s launch so successful.  Sarah Ponn, co-owner of Surfset, said of Shark Tank’s help, “It sounds corny.  But it is the American dream, and we honestly feel like we’re living it.”
Provide Your Employees A Platform.  Improve Their Financial Status.  Help Make Their Dreams Come True.  If you do these three things, you will be well on your way to becoming a successful leader.

Monday, October 28, 2013

15 Reasons Why Good Church Volunteers Quit

15 Reasons Why Good Church Volunteers Quit

This past week I had a troubling conversation with one of the best church volunteers I know.  After faithfully serving in his role for over 15 years, he is strongly considering resigning his position.
Though sometimes a good idea, mostly when great volunteers resign their positions it is one of the most tragic and avoidable things that can happen at a church.  Sadly, when great volunteers leave a position, they often leave their church as well.  They feel they have no other options.  This is something pastors and church leaders must aggressively address.
Operating under the condition of anonymity, he allowed me to capture his thoughts and pass them along to you for the purpose of helping churches better serve their volunteers and helping to prevent burnout.
  1. No Return On Investment – Volunteers must constantly be reminded what they do matters.  He said, “I don’t think I’m getting a return on my investment.”
  2. No Life Change – One of the roles of church leadership is to constantly tell stories of life change currently happening as a result of their volunteers.  He said, “I don’t sense I’m making an eternal impact and I don’t know what I’m doing is impactful for today.”
  3. No Difference – He added, “I feel like if I’m there or not it doesn’t make any difference.”
  4. No Desire – Do your volunteers look forward to serving.  Are they excited about what God can do in and through their lives.  My heart sank when he said, “I just feel burnt out.  I just want to go sit down.”
  5. No Breaks – 15 years is a long time to serve.  Churches need to be monitoring the emotional health of their volunteers.  He said, “It may just be time to take a break.  I don’t need permission.  I’ll just tell them I quit.”
  6. No Attachment To Vision – One of the most important things church leadership can do is connect the dots from volunteer positions to the fulfillment of mission and vision.  He admitted, “Some of it may be my attitude toward the church’s direction and leadership.”
  7. No Appreciation – In some churches, it is simply ministry malpractice how we use our volunteers rather than serve them.  Pastors, are you aggressively communicating appreciation for your volunteers?  Unbelievably, his shoulders sank and said, “Brian, in 15 years of serving, only one person has told me ‘Thank You.’”
  8. No Community – One of the reasons people volunteer is they are looking for friends.  He went on, “Maybe it would be better if we prayed together or something.  There is no relational component to what we’re doing.”
  9. No Direction – I want to stress this is a Godly man who knows serving in his church is about God’s glory and not his personal fulfillment.  He points out, “Maybe this is God just moving me on to serving somewhere else.”
  10. No Urgency – As I spoke with this gentleman I realized there was simply no longer a sense of urgency related in his ministry.
  11. No Respect – In frustration he said, “The departmental head makes me feel valued.  He gives them space to do what I want to do.  The people don’t value what I do.”   Note – Senior pastors are responsible for owning this.  People are a picture of the leader.  It should be a core value at a church that their mantra is “This is how much we value volunteers.  This is what we think of volunteers.  This is what we do for volunteers.  This is how we treat volunteers.  This is how we serve volunteers…etc”  And it starts with the senior pastor.
  12. No Future – Pastors and church leaders must paint a picture of growth for their volunteers.  He said, “It’s not a self-esteem issue but I’ve come to a dead end and I don’t know how to extend the road.”
  13. No Emotional Attachment – Some people will tell you, “My heart’s just not in this anymore.”  He said, “Part of me is sad because I’ve done it for so long but part of it is I’m not even disappointed.”
  14. No Margin – The last six months have been a difficult stretch personally, professionally, financially, and from a health perspective for this individual.  Because of these challenges, he will fall through the cracks at many churches.  The scary question, though, is how many volunteers in our churches are also at-risk because of similar issues?  We must have personal relationships with our volunteers and know what challenges they are facing outside of church.
  15. No Chance – He concluded, “Two weeks on and two weeks off wouldn’t make a difference.  It’s not that kind of burnout.  It’s a “I’m done” burnout.”
Pastors and church leaders, what are your thoughts of this interview and the subject of volunteer burnout as a whole?  Do his thoughts compel you to take some form of action?

Sunday, October 27, 2013

The Top 10 Leadership Posts I Read The Week Of October 21st

The Top 10 Leadership Posts I Read The Week Of October 21st

Pastors and church leaders deal with a broad spectrum of issues.  This is why I love this week’s Top 10 list.  Multiple issues Christian leaders face are addressed.
The following are The Top 10 Leadership Posts I Read The Week Of October 21st.  These articles are from some of the greatest leaders in the Christian community today.
  1. Day Zero by Jon Acuff
  2. Going Social To Plant Churches by Brandon A. Cox via ChurchLeaders.com
  3. 3 Imperatives For The Leader Desiring To Change The Norm by Artie Davis
  4. 3 Ways Your Church Can Make A Great First Impression by Justin Lathrop
  5. 20 Things Many Pastors Do Not Get And Should by Joe McKeever
  6. 3 Steps To Overcoming A Bad Day by Tim Parsons
  7. Church Stereotypes: According To Google by Kate Shellnut of www.ChristianityToday.com
  8. Finding Staff And Building Culture by Tim Stevens
  9. 8 Reasons Believers Give To Your Church by Rick Warren
  10. 11 Simple Keys To Success by Scott Williams
That’s my Top 10 for this week.  What other great posts did you read the past seven days?

2 Things Churches Must Do To Remain Relevant

2 Things Churches Must Do To Remain Relevant

What was once popular, relevant, and a significant part of our life can one day become dull and boring.  Things we once cleared our calendar for can become so irrelevant we no longer consider it a viable option for our time.
In 1971, 37 million out of 61 million American households watched the Pittsburgh Pirates beat the Baltimore Orioles in Game 7 win the World Series.  Fox is hoping for just 10 million households this year.  This is a significant drop in viewership.
As Christian leaders we should learn the reasons why and avoid the same mistakes ourselves.
The decline of baseball’s popularity is much discussed.  Experts talk about the game’s slow pace, late start times, and lack of offense.  These are true but earlier this week ESPN’s Keith Olbermann offered two additional insights which pastors and church leaders should pay particular attention to.  You can watch Olbermann’s full report by clicking here.
Increased Options For People’s Time – If the World Series were to go seven games it will have competed with Thursday night football, Sunday night football, Monday night football, six college games featuring ranked teams, and the opening of the NBA season.  Locally, the Red Sox will even have to compete with the Bruins and Celtics twice.
The options for people’s time is vast – television, video games, vacation homes, youth sports, the lake, fatigue, etc.., etc…, etc..
The quality of our services must be so challenging, relevant, and have such a level of excellence that nothing the world could offer would possibly be as attractive or compelling.
An Expanded Leadership Base – Olbermann theorizes that beginning in the 1960′s, baseball began attempting to eliminate national teams like the Yankees and Dodgers.  They wanted a level playing field.  Unknowingly, they created mediocrity.
The NFL on the other hand wanted to create national teams like the Packers, Cowboys, and Raiders.  As a result, the NFL created national fan bases.  So much so that every NFL team now has a national following.
ESPN reports that 70% of fans will watch games their team is not playing in. 50% of fans will even watch another game WHILE their hometown team is playing.  I am such a fan.
What the NFL knew is the more teams you have with a large following, large influence, the more successful and relevant their league would be.
Churches who are able to identify, develop, and unleash larger numbers of leaders, people with influence, the more successful and relevant their ministry would be.
Compelling Services and an Expanded Leadership Base.  Pastors and church leaders, let’s learn from baseball.  These are two things churches must do to remain relevant.

Thursday, October 24, 2013

Why You MUST Develop More Leaders

Why You MUST Develop More Leaders

Bridge Structure
photo credit: telmo32
If you want your church to grow, and if you want the Kingdom to grow, you’re going to need to develop many more leaders. In the early church, an interesting turn of events happens when the apostles shift from simply preaching to releasing leaders.
The Bible says in the early chapters of Acts that God was “adding” to the church daily. Shortly into the life of the Jerusalem church, there arose a conflict between Hellenistic Jews and Hebraic Jews over the care of orphans and widows. The apostles asked for leaders from the church to be pointed out and then they released seven men to oversee a new area of ministry. Suddenly, the terminology changes from God “adding” to the church to the church “multiplying.”
Out of Acts, chapter 6, we can take away at least seven lessons for churches that want to grow by empowering and releasing more leaders.

1. A growing church is a Biblical idea.

It says, “In those days the number of disciples were increasing.” If a church is not growing, it is often because something is unhealthy. Healthy things grow. Unless the community is already saturated and everyone reachable has been reached, a church must diagnose what is breaking down in the leadership development process. We’ve said that if there is one person who doesn’t know Christ, we’re going to keep growing. A growing church is biblical.

2. Church growth causes problems.

Acts 6 says that there were “rumblings of discontent.” That’s true in any church. Sometimes people come to me and say, “Pastor Rick, we’ve really got a problem in this church.” I want to say, “Which one? I’m aware of about a couple hundred. Which one are you talking about?” They say, “You may not recognize this but there’s this need.” Of course we recognize it. We live with it day and night. But leadership development takes time, so there are always holes to be filled in any growing ministry.

3. Problems are always unmet needs.

It says “The Greek speaking Jews claimed their widows were being neglected in the daily distribution of food.” We would like to think that everyone in our church’s membership is together in the priority of seeing more people come to Jesus, but even Christians get distracted when there are unmet needs in their lives – real or imagined. When you experience a leadership problem in your church, it almost always flows out of someone’s unmet need.

4. Pastors cannot do it all.

Their response to this need was, “It wouldn’t be right for us to neglect the ministry of the word of God in order to wait on tables.” It’s a legitimate need but it’s not one that God called us to meet. Spiritual leaders cannot remain spiritual leaders long if they aren’t spending adequate time at the feet of Jesus seeking wisdom, direction, and vision.

5. Spirit-filled believers assist the pastoral staff.

They said, “choose seven men, full of the Holy Spirit and we’ll turn the responsibility over to them.” It’s interesting that if you read these names in Acts 6 – Stephen, Philip, Prochorus, Nicanor, Timon, Parmenas, and Nicolaus – you find that they are all Greek names. And these men cared deeply about the needs of the Greek believers in the early church.

6. The pastors are to focus on praying and teaching.

He said, “We will give our attention to prayer and teaching of the word.” I once had to make a covenant with Saddleback Church. If the people would take on the work of the ministry, I would make sure they were well fed. That’s been my goal since that time. The ministry of Saddleback outgrew me a long time ago. Obviously I can’t do all the ministry. I can’t even do a fraction of the ministry. But I can make sure that you’re well fed.

7. The result of lay ministry was more growth.

It says, “This proposal pleased the whole group so the word of God increased rapidly (multiplied).” There was mobilization. In many churches, all you’re expected to do is attend and give. But those are really two minor issues related to what God really wants to do in your life. We have allowed our spectator-oriented culture to influence the church.
But God teaches us to mobilize every person for ministry – pastors and staff are to equip all believers for the work of the ministry. We have to mobilize every member for ministry. This is leadership development. And this is essential to fulfilling the Great Commission.

Wednesday, October 23, 2013

The Top 10 Leadership Posts I Read The Week Of October 14th

The Top 10 Leadership Posts I Read The Week Of October 14th

All leaders, especially those who lead churches, have a mandate to get better.  That is why I love this week’s top posts list.  These posts are filled with practical tips which will make any church, business, non-profit, or sports team improve and get better.
You will want to book mark these posts.  They are that good.  The following are The Top 10 Leadership Posts I Read The Week Of October 14th:
  1. What The Church Can Learn From U.S. Airways About Fun by Paul Alexander
  2. How “Paying The Price” Can Unleash Your Leadership Effectiveness by Scott Cochrane
  3. Wonder Woman by Kate Harris via The Barna Group
  4. Why You Should Do Everything Twice by Michael Lukaszewski
  5. Churches Are Liars by Kem Meyer
  6. The Silent CEO Addiction Killing Productivity And Talent Development by Mike Myatt
  7. 21 Ways To Overcome Personal Discouragement by Carey Nieuwhof
  8. What Starbucks Gets That Architects Don’t by Christine Outram
  9. Three Changing Trends In American Churches by Thom Rainer
  10. Alabama Players Come With Mileage by Adam Schefter
Well, that is my Top 10 of the week.  What other great posts did you read the last seven days?

18 Practices Of Churches Who Have Sustained Success

18 Practices Of Churches Who Have Sustained Success

During my 20′s two nationally-recognized churches resided in my hometown just five miles of each other.  Because of a demand for new worship styles, a changing community, and an inability and refusal to engage the next generation, these two churches are still in existence today but have limited impact.
These congregations have aged dramatically and their best days are seemingly in the past.  This could have been avoided.
I wondered, “Are there success links churches can implement to ensure on-going generational success?”  With the World Series starting tomorrow, I wanted to take a look at the St. Louis Cardinals for answers.  This organization has had success decade after decade after decade.
I went back into my archives and uncovered a May 27th Sports Illustrated article written by Ben Reiter on The Cardinal Way.  As I read Reiter’s profile I gleaned 18 things about The Cardinal Way that all churches can learn from to have sustained success.
  1. Churches Who Have Sustained Success Are Willing To Change With The Times – The Cardinal Way is an ethos for one of the games most enduring organizations.  However, the team is flexible enough to change with game’s trends better than any other.
  2. Churches Who Have Sustained Success Avoid Complacency – General Manager John Mozeliak says, “We can’t ever just get complacent and think we’ve figured it out.  The moment we do that, we’re going to get passed.”
  3. Churches Who Have Sustained Success Continually Innovate – The Cardinals have a commitment to “ceaselessly, though judiciously, innovate.”  Does your church?
  4. Churches Who Have Sustained Success Value Results – Mozeliak goes on to add regarding superstar prospect Oscar Taveras, “He’s an aggressive hitter with a really good trait.  He hits the ball hard, and often.”
  5. Churches Who Have Sustained Success Let People Experiment – Does your church do R & D.  Pitching coach Dave Duncan convinces pitchers to try his ideas and then gives them appropriate time to figure it out.  He says, “They gotta tinker.  That’s the only thing that works.”
  6. Churches Who Have Sustained Success Must Feel Enough Pain They Want To Change - Star pticher Adam Wainwright had experienced enough failure and difficulty that he was ready to tinker.
  7. Churches Who Have Sustained Success Promote From Within – The Cardinals have an organizational philosophy of in-house succession.
  8. Churches Who Have Sustained Success Recognize Potential – In my book 10 Indispensable Practices Of The 2-Minute Leader, I say when enlisting talent you must look at a person’s past, present, and future.  When drafting pitchers, the Cardinals look at a player’s potential.  Mozeliak said, “In the draft we decided to emphasize not just pitchers who were throwing hard at the time, but guys we thought might throw harder in the future.”
  9. Churches Who Have Sustained Success Build A Deep Bench – The Cardinals farm system is stocked full of great young pitchers.
  10. Churches Who Have Sustained Success Embrace Diversity – Churches who will be successful in the future are intentionally multi-ethnic and multi-generational.  These churches will also value a diversity of skills.  Duncan says, “Different guys have different abilities.”
  11. Churches Who Have Sustained Success Attention To Detail – Little things make a big difference.  Pitcher Michael Wacha says, “This organization is all about attention to detail – they hammer this stuff home constantly.”
  12. Churches Who Have Sustained Success Have Faced Adversity – Great organizations lose top talent.  The Cardinals faced serious adversity when star player Albert Pujols left the team via free agency.  Mozeliak said, “Losing an iconic player was not easy – it was jolting.”
  13. Churches Who Have Sustained Success Have Financial Margin – The exit of Pujols gave the team significant financial resources to deploy elsewhere.
  14. Churches Who Have Sustained Success Are Greater Than A Single Individual – Great churches, and great organizations like the Cardinals, are “committed to agility” that is beyond a single individual.
  15. Churches Who Have Sustained Success Recognize And Reward Top Performers – While not building the team around a single player, great organizations still recognize and value unique talents.  The Cardinals gave star catcher Yadier Molina a five-year, $75 million contract.  So valuable is Molina, that manager Mike Matheny says, “You want to get our pitchers mad, start talking poorly about Yadi.”
  16. Churches Who Have Sustained Success Protect The Public Trust – Mozeliak says, “I always think that my role here is almost like working for a public trust, and I’m a steward of it.”
  17. Churches Who Have Sustained Success Leave A Lasting Impression - Former Cardinals scout Mike Elias says, “The people that work there and leave, they continue to identify themselves as former Cardinals.”
  18. Churches Who Have Sustained Success Have Sustained Excellence – Mozeliak concludes, “We realized long ago that free agency was not a place we wanted to be using our resources.  We decided that for us to have sustained success, we had to do it internally.”

Nothing Excites Leaders More Than This

Nothing Excites Leaders More Than This

Several years ago while working for the John Maxwell Organization, I was having a conversation with a co-worker about John’s non-profit group EQUIP.  If you are unfamiliar with EQUIP, their team provides leadership training to Christian leaders and the business community around the globe.
I asked why the company was so successful.  My friend said, “Brian, nothing excites leaders more than training and investing in other leaders.”
It is important to understand leaders are on a common journey.  They often face similar issues.  They are stretched by other leaders and challenged in a positive way.  Investing in leaders multiplies one’s influence.  There is no better use of a leader’s time than investing in other leaders.
As a leader, your success is directly tied to connecting the leaders on your team with other leaders.  How are you doing in this area?
Here is an action step for anyone who leads a team of people – Find a way to connect your leaders with other leaders.  Everyone wins when leaders get better.
As I looked at The Top 10 Most Read Leadership Posts From September as determined by you the readers, I thought about these truths.  5 of the top 10 dealt directly with leaders engaging other leaders.  And you could make an argument the other 5 indirectly dealt with the subject also.
Check these out.  They will make you a better leader.
  1. 15 Quotes From Rick and Kay Warren’s Interview With CNN’s Piers Morgan
  2. 7 Things Churches Can Do To Honor Those Who Visit Their Weekend Services
  3. 7 Practices Of The Best Leaders Who Also Have A Life Outside Of Work
  4. 11 Signs When A Leader Is In Trouble
  5. 14 Practices Of Churches Who Build Successful Partnerships With Their City
  6. 30 Practices Of Leaders Who Are The Best Of Their Generation: Leadership Quotes From Tom Brady
  7. 9 Reasons Good Teams Suddenly Perform Badly
  8. 5 Practices Of Successful Leaders Who Survived Difficult Times
  9. 6 Things Older Leaders Can Do To Change A Young Leader’s Life
  10. 15 Perks Leaders Receive

45 Lessons On Casting A Big Vision For God

45 Lessons On Casting A Big Vision For God

Mike Madding is one of the great Christian leaders in America.  As senior pastor of The Cove Church in Mooresville, NC, Mike leads a congregation running over 6,000 in weekend attendance across its five campuses.  Of all the churches I have ever visited or had the privilege of working with, The Cove Church has the most loving and servant-minded staff I have come across.
The Cove’s Executive Pastor Rick Carney gave me a heads up Mike’s message this past weekend was going to be special and how right he was.  Upon returning from a recent mission trip to the Middle East, Mike preached on the need to have a BIG vision in your life.  You can watch the full sermon by clicking here.
One of things which separates great pastors from average ones is a big vision from God and the ability to install a similar big vision in the hearts and minds of those in their church.
Mike gave his church a gift this past weekend which I now joyfully share with you.  Whether you are a pastor, business leader, stay-at-home mom, coach, or student, the following 45 Lessons On Casting A Big Vision For God will make you a better leader.
  1. “Nothing of eternal value happens without prayer…Where you see the church alive is where the church is praying.”
  2. “We are praying for 300 people to come to faith on November 16th and 17th.”
  3. “We need big goals.  We need big dreams.  We serve a big God with a big vision for what He wants to do.”
  4. “It is possible to live a life without vision, without a inkling of what He wants you to do.”
  5. “I believe God wants to do something BIG in our lives.”
  6. “Let’s learn from the best.  Let’s learn from the life of David.”
  7. “Vision needs to be shared and you need to practice doing that with even the  small little things God has said to you.”
  8. “If you want to see God’s vision (then) develop the habit of telling people ‘This is what God has said to me.”‘
  9. “I only listen to criticism from people who love Jesus, love the church, and love me.” – Perry Noble
  10. “The bigger the vision is the more time you need in order to test it out.”
  11. “If you got a big vision, you must drip it.”
  12. “If you have to do something big for God, you have to rise up in front of everyone else.”
  13. “We serve a God who is limitless.  God is doing BIG things in the world today.”
  14. “I believe God has something BIG for everyone of us to do.  The question is will you walk in it?”
  15. “Students I want you to believe BIG.  I want you to see the world as a BIG place where God is at work.”
  16. “We (our students) can pray for people.  We can make a difference.  Our students were alive.  We want to feel alive.”
  17. “We can’t see the harvest unless God open our eyes.”
  18. “Students, I want to get to your heart.  What you see here in our little area is not all there is.  This is a BIG world and we serve a BIG God who can use anyone who wants to be used.”
  19. “A big vision requires preparation.”
  20. “The bigger the vision the longer you will have it.  David made preparations for years.”
  21. “I believe our neighborhood campuses are a preparation phase for what God is going to day one day we can’t fully understand.”
  22. “Start with your passion…What could be better because sometimes God turns your misery into your ministry?”
  23. “If you follow Him, God often says, ‘No’…’No’ is never the end of what God wants to do in your life.”
  24. “‘No’ doesn’t mean stop…Let God redirect you…Don’t do God’s will your way.”
  25. “A God-sized dream will make you feel the pleasure of God.”
  26. “You may see the vision but not be the lead person.”
  27. “I believe the hardest instrument to play is 2nd fiddle.  And sometimes the most important role is the support role.”
  28. “It’s not about what I’ve accomplished.  It’s about what my wife and I have accomplished.”
  29. “It’s about what all of us have accomplished together.”
  30. “Big vision covers several generations.”
  31. “I (God) want you (Mike) to raise up 10 young pastors who will one day be better than you are.”
  32. “It’s fun to invest in the next generation.”
  33. “God wants our obedience more than our visionary thinking.”
  34. “Future blessings are dependent upon obeying today.”
  35. “If you want to do great things for God you have to live IN the vision.”
  36. “Obedience really matters.  Vision must be lived out in front of people.”
  37. “People with vision become more visible.  Vision creates visibility.”
  38. “Are you willing to be know in that way…Are you willing to sacrifice your personality as a Jesus follower?”
  39. “Leadership means visibility.  You’ve got to live out in front with boldness.”
  40. “You don’t need to stand out for Jesus.  You must stand with Him.”
  41. “Big vision takes courage.”
  42. “If you want be a leader you have to have courage, to encourage, and to give courage to others.”
  43. “We have a vision to be a church of 40,000.”
  44. “Sharing my faith with my family.  Isn’t that the scariest thing you can think of.”
  45. “There is no fear because you are walking in the Spirit with The Spirit and God just uses you in great ways.”
Do you want want God to do great things in your life?  Incorporate these 45 lessons and you will see God do just that.

24 Leadership Quotes And Lessons For Successful Young Leaders I Learned From Florida State QB Jameis Winston

24 Leadership Quotes And Lessons For Successful Young Leaders I Learned From Florida State QB Jameis Winston

In 2012 it was Texas A&M redshirt freshman quarterback Johnny Manziel who took the college football world by storm.  This year’s freshman phenom capturing the attention of fans is Florida State redshirt freshman Jameis Winston.
Tonight, Winston faces his greatest challenge to date as he heads into Clemson Stadium to take on the #3 ranked Tigers in a nationally televised broadcast.  There has been much attention placed on Winston this week heading into the game.
After watching many features and reading several news articles on Winston, I narrowed the list down the three in which I gleaned the most information which  I will now pass on to you.  The following are 24 Leadership Quotes And Lessons For Successful Young I Leaders I Learned From FSU QB Jameis Winston:
ESPN Gameday
  1. Successful Young Leaders Trust Their Preparation – FSU head coach Jumbo Fisher said, “In big games you want to make big plays.  Just let the game come to him and be patient.  Trust in how he’s been prepared and trust his eyes.”
  2. Successful Young Leaders Are Deeply Appreciated - Tom Rinaldi said, “As much as we admire champions, we adore prodigies.”
  3. Successful Young Leaders Are Organized - Quarterback guru George Whitfield said,Footwork.  His organization is phenomenal.  In a jam, he can organize it.  Set himself and get the ball off.”
  4. Successful Young Leaders Are Resilient - Kirk Herbstreit notes, “Teams are getting to him but not bringing him down.”
  5. Successful Young Leaders Process Large Amounts Of Information - Speaking of Coach Fisher, Herbstreit adds, ”His ability to process information I’m (Coach Fisher) giving him is uncanny.  He’s has never been around a guy at this young a age who can digest this entire package.”
Sports Illustrated article by Andy Staples
  1. Successful Young Leaders Maximize Down Time – Winston was already leading during his redshirt season.  Coach Fisher noticed, “He was getting on guys.  It was natural for him to bark out and command, even though he was a pup.”
  2. Successful Young Leaders Are Optimistic - Winston has a philosophy, “The worst day is a rainy day with no laughts.”
  3. Successful Young Leaders Have Something Which Makes Them Unique - Teammate Cam Erving says, “He has the it factor.  You can’t explain the it factor.  It’s just it.”
  4. Successful Young Leaders Have Great Determination - Even as a high schooler Winston showed great leadership skills.  His Hueytown (AL) head coach Matt Scott said, “There are a lot of Division I quarterbacks who can throw as well as he can.  There’s a bunch that run as good.  What makes him who he is right now are the third and fourth things.  Number three is his Football IQ.  And number four is just his mentality.  Every Friday night, he was the meanest son of a gun out there.”
  5. Successful Young Leaders Make Adjustments - Winston called his first audible in youth football at age seven.
  6. Successful Young Leaders Bring Security To Others - During a difficult flight to Miami, Winston comforted Ana Couture, wife of the school’s athletic director.  She said, ”He was going out of his way to see how I was doing.  That’s just the sign of a good person.  He didn’t have to do that.”
  7. Successful Young Leaders Must Fight Against Being Over-Emotional - Winston often gets emotional with coaches and has to be calmed down.
  8. Successful Young Leaders Think Like An Owner – Coach Fisher does not have to “dumb things down” for Winston.  He says, “You can have a conversation with him like you do a coach.  When you talk, he sees.”
CBS Sports article by Dennis Dodd – You can read the full article by clicking here.
  1. Successful Young Leaders Make Mistakes - Winston said during one sideline outburst, ”I was trying to motivate my team saying a few words I shouldn’t have said.”
  2. Successful Young Leaders Are Humble - Winston went on to add, ”There’s a parent who says, ‘There’s kids up here. You shouldn’t use that language.’ I stopped throwing the football, warming up, and said, ‘I apologize.’
  3. Successful Young Leaders Respect Their Elders – Referring to Bo Jackson, Winston said, “I met him before at Auburn on a [recruiting] visit.  I was in awe. At some point, his legs are so big you don’t want to mess with that guy.”  Regarding Deion Sanders, Winston said, ”I don’t think there will ever be a player like him, except Bo.”
  4. Successful Young Leaders Are Also Respected By Their Elders – School legend and former head coach Bobby Bowden told ESPN.com, “This young man is as good as anybody we’ve ever had.”
  5. Successful Young Leaders Have Defining Moments - It is now calledThe Play.”  This is when Winston escaped the grasp of multiple Maryland defenders to throw a touchdown pass to tight end Nick O’Leary.
  6. Successful Young Leaders Are Confident - Winston confidently proclaims, ”Nervous is not even in my vocabulary on the field.”
  7. Successful Young Leaders Produce Results - In his very first game, Winston completed his first 11 passes against the Pitt Panthers.  He finished the game completing 25 of 27.
  8. Successful Young Leaders Promote The Organization - In an unusual move for a star athlete, Winston loves to represent the school by being a recruiting host.
  9. Successful Young Leaders Value Options - Winston narrowed his two college choices down to FSU and Alabama.  FSU was chosen partly because he could also play in the school’s baseball program.
  10. Successful Young Leaders Have High Energy - Winston says, ”When Coach Fisher gets mad at practice, it’s either because I messed up or I’m not controlling the tempo of the offense.  He tells me, ‘You’ve got the players around you. It’s your job to control the tempo. It’s your job to keep the energy level up.”
  11. Successful Young Leaders Must Avoid Failure – One thing Winston does not appreciate about baseball is it’s “habit of failure.”  He does not consider making seven outs every 10 at-bats as being a success.
In conclusion, I am picking FSU to prevail 45-42 in an incredible game.  What are your thoughts on Winston’s leadership?

7 Reasons Why Great Leaders Are Desperately Needed

7 Reasons Why Great Leaders Are Desperately Needed

How much is a great leader truly worth?  What is the impact on a church when it has a great pastor with the gift of leadership?  How successful can a business become with a strong point leader?  And what difference can a coach with superior competency and leadership skills make on a sports team?  The answer to all of these questions is it simply immeasurable.
Through the first five weeks of the NFL season, the New Orleans Saints are undefeated.  The return of head coach Sean Payton has obviously been dramatic.  Under his leadership, the Saints had a record of 62-34 from 2006-11.  Last year during his suspension, the team’s record slipped to 7-9.
In the September 16th edition of Sports Illustrated, Tim Layden looked at Payton’s impact on the team’s fast start.  As I read the article, I gleaned 7 Reasons Why Great Leaders Are Desperately Needed:
  1. Great Leaders Are Desperately Needed Because They Give Others Confidence – Wide receiver Marques Colston attributes last year’s losing record to the absence of Payton.  He said simply, “We didn’t have our leader.”
  2. Great Leaders Are Desperately Needed Because They Provide Clarity – After beating the Atlanta Falcons in Payton’s emotional first game back, Drew Brees said,”Everything else doesn’t mean a thing if you don’t win the game.”
  3. Great Leaders Are Desperately Needed Because They Change Culture – Right tackle Zach Strief said, “Since Coach Payton came here, the culture changed around this franchise.  A 7-9 record was no longer acceptable around here.”
  4. Great Leaders Are Desperately Needed Because They Point To A Brighter Tomorrow – Wide receiver Lance Moore stresses that upon Payton’s return he told the team, “The past is the past.”  Moore then added, “Last year was tough for everybody.  But he wanted us to put that behind us.”
  5. Great Leaders Are Desperately Needed Because They Help Us Reach Our Potential - Payton immediately raised the work ethic and level of intensity on the Saints.  Strief said, “Back then (Payton’s arrival in 2006), Coach Payton was trying to get us to believe in being physical and outworking people.  Gradually, we had gotten away from that.  So we went back.”
  6. Great Leaders Are Desperately Needed Because They Bring A Sense Of Urgency – Prior to the Falcons game, Payton said in his pre-game speech, “Don’t turn the ball over.  Hold on to it.  And if you’re holding the ball, you’re holding the hopes and dreams of the whole team.”
  7. Great Leaders Are Desperately Needed Because They Bring A Proper Perspective – After Payton won his first game back from the suspension, many wanted to compare the game to winning the first game after Katrina.  Payton brought everyone back to reality.  He said, “Today, it got loud near the end.  In 2006 (after Katrina), that game was different.”
Confidence, Clarity, A Changing Culture, A Brighter Tomorrow, Urgency, Perspective and Met Potential.  These 7 Reasons Are Why Leaders Are So Desperately Needed.  If you provide these 7 things, you may just be a great leader yourself.  I hope you are.

99 Leadership Quotes From Day 2 Of Catalyst – Andy Stanley, Reggie Joiner, Uncle Si And More

99 Leadership Quotes From Day 2 Of Catalyst – Andy Stanley, Reggie Joiner, Uncle Si And More

The Rocket Company dispatched me to live blog from this year’s Catalyst Conference and I’m glad they did.  Day 2 of the conference was absolutely full of rich leadership content.  The following are the Top 99 Leadership Quotes of the day:
Reggie Joiner
  1. It’s just interesting that people who used to be known aren’t anymore…People come and go.
  2. You will die sooner than you think.
  3. You will be forgotten.
  4. You will only be remembered by the people who know you now.
  5. When you see how much time you have left, you get serious about the time you have now.
  6. When you see how much time you have left, you make what matters matter more.
  7. You can’t make a kid love God.  You can’t make a kid read the Bible.  At some point, they’re going to make their own decisions.
  8. You can talk a kid into believing what you believe but another person can talk them out of it.
  9. Leaving a legacy means you keep doing your part believing God is going to do His part.
  10. I’m not God.  I’m not the Holy Spirit.  I can’t change anyone but I can invest in a few.
  11. The reason you can’t see spiritual growth in a person’s life you’re working with is because it’s spiritual.
  12. The reason you can’t measure progress sometimes is because it’s so gradual.
  13. God proved love over time.  If you take love and lay it over time it’s believable.
  14. Love over time gives someone a sense of worth.  We’re living in a time with people who don’t understand their worth.
  15. Fun over time gives someone a different sense of connection.
  16. Churches that don’t have fun have a spiritual issue.
  17. Stories over time give us perspective.
  18. When you see how much time you have life you spend time with a few.
  19. Inheritance is something you leave for someone.  Legacy is what you leave in them.
  20. Leaving a legacy has less to be with being magnificent, but more to being ordinary.
  21. When a daughter is born, you start learning how to let go.
Priscilla Shirer
  1. There has never been a time in church history in which 15,000 young leaders could be called together to study God’s Word.
  2. If you think it’s a miracle you were born, think about how much more it is a miracle you were born again.  Since the beginning of time there has been a war for your soul.
  3. God has a patience that not only can He save you, He can change you.
  4. People get excited about treasure that is already yours.  This conference is not about getting more treasure but about opening the drawer and getting the treasure that is already yours.
Mary Landrieu – Democratic Senator from Louisiana
  1. There are many people in the world who don’t know that children belong in families.
  2. Children need families.  Government does some things well.  Raising children is not one of them.  Parents raise children.
Dave Ramsey and Rachel Cruze (Dave’s middle daughter) 
  1. I was that dad that screwed up. – DR
  2. I met God on the way up but I got to know Him on the way down. – DR
  3. When it comes to your money, your kids are going to do what you do, not what you say.  More is taught than caught. – DR
  4. Money makes you more of what you already are. – RC
  5. You can be a missionary, just don’t do it by missionary dating.  If a boy drives into the driveway and honks the horn, he better be delivering a pizza. – RC
  6. I stand here to prove to you that God’s grace is real.  I’m that dad. – DR
Uncle Si from Duck Dynasty 
  1. I’m like a fine-tuned race car.  After he goes 7-8 times around the track, you need a pit stop.  That’s why I drink tea.
  2. The book is written by a red neck for a red neck.
  3. I grew a long beard so people could not call me a bald-face liar.
  4. 95% of the book is true.  I put 5% in it to kick it up a notch.
  5. I’m like the 5th wheel on a good tractor trailer.  You can’t haul nothing without a good 5th wheel.
  6. The whole TV network are just pulling their hair out trying to figure out why Duck Dynasty is such a big hit.  They leave out the God factor.
  7. God has taken us and made us tv stars.
  8. The Almighty is directing this and He is going to take Duck Dynasty where He wants it to go and who He wants it to go to.
  9. When I get up and go duck hunting, I’m with the Creator enjoying His masterpiece.
  10. I don’t know what people do when they don’t believe in God.  If they are diagnosed with cancer, who do they turn to except the Creator?
  11. I’m amazed America has embraced the Robinson family and we appreciate it.
Cory Booker – Mayor Of Newark, NJ
  1. Purpose is more important than a position.
  2. It was hard to have the courage to confront fear.
  3. When you find purpose and pursue it courage and passion it’s amazing how the universe will conspire to help you.
  4. God has plans for you that you don’t even know about.  But it’s hard to be lead while you’re sitting there.
  5. This world will make you do a lot to conform and fit into boxes.
  6. “Everyone is born an original and most die copies.” – Abraham Lincoln
  7. The rewards in my life from daring to be different have been significant.
  8. Fear is the opposite of love.  It makes us small.
  9. We can’t stop being risk-takers.
  10. The awesomeness of God tells us we don’t have all the answers.
  11. Talent is important but values are even more important.
  12. Your values speak so loudly I can’t hear what you say.
  13. Your job is to never stop learning and growing.  You can always get better.
  14. Your emotions are choices.
  15. I am not a slave to circumstance.  I can always make a choice about my emotional response.
  16. You have the ability to change reality because of your response.
  17. Why would you take a second of your life and not treat as if it’s special.
  18. When I have a really bad day, my default position is what can I learn from this?
  19. The world you see outside of you is a reflection of what is inside of you.
  20. You cannot have great breakthroughs without great frustration.
  21. Expressing gratitude is one of the most healing things you can do.
  22. The potholes are just as valuable to me as the smooth roads.
  23. You can’t have extraordinary results without extraordinary efforts.
Jud Wilhite
  1. If you’re in leadership you know the weight of that prayer. – “Lord, take me out of the game.”
  2. Everybody likes you until you lead.
  3. No matter how tough your assignment is, it is probably not nearly as tough as Hosea’s.
  4. Love the calling you have.  Not the one you wish you have.
  5. Your calling doesn’t originate with you and end with you.
  6. When you’re worn out, don’t let anyone steal your calling.
  7. If you rejoice in the God who calls you then you will rejoice in what He called you to.
  8. I didn’t know I needed Jesus (as a teenager) but I knew I needed help.  I love the church.
  9. The church is the only community that changes individuals from the inside out.
  10. God didn’t call you to fruit.  He called you to faithfulness.
  11. If you love God then you need to love what God loves.  God loves the church.
  12. If you don’t love the church you forfeit the right to critique it and make it better.
  13. Focus on your church’s unique strengths.
  14. Stop comparing your church to others.  This needs to be said again, again, again, again, and again.
  15. Social media is a billboard, not a diary.  You don’t see all the challenges that are faced at that church.
  16. Ministry is hard.  Whether it’s 50 people, 500, or 5,000 it’s hard.
  17. Tell the stories of life-change.  It’s all about the story of what Jesus is doing in people’s lives.
  18. “You almost quit on this…This is the work I am doing and you are lucky enough to be a part of it.” – God to Jud
Andy Stanley
  1. Leaders don’t leave (conferences early).
  2. I have to make things simple for me to understand them.
  3. “Level 5 leaders have the humility to aspire to be the dumbest person in the room.” – Jim Collins
  4. “We are ladies and gentlemen serving ladies and gentlemen.” – Ritz Carlton mission statement
  5. “You are not a servant.  You are a lady.” – Ritz Carlton
  6. Most decisions are pre-decided when the mission is clear.
  7. A sign of good leadership is you are making fewer and fewer decisions.
  8. You will never be a great church if you haven’t decided what the church is there for.
  9. You will have a hard time convincing others to join you if you don’t know what you’re there for.
  10. Leaders love working for people who give them crystal clear instructions.
  11. If you want to be a great leader tell people, “If you come to work here you will do this and this only.”
  12. The reason you don’t have a sticky statement is because you haven’t taken the time to create one.
  13. I can’t make anyone fall in love with Jesus.  I just setup dates.
  14. Your personal calling is going to be where you find your passion.

Wednesday, October 16, 2013

21 Leadership Quotes And Lessons From Captain Phillips

21 Leadership Quotes And Lessons From Captain Phillips

http://youtu.be/1Wc1l1DW6IE 

One of the most popular posts I have ever written is The Top 20 Leadership Movies Of The Last 20 Years.  It is time to update the list.
Captain Phillips is an absolutely incredible, must-see movie.  This film chronicles the 2009 hijacking of the freighter ship Maersk Alabama by Somali pirates.  Directed by Paul Greengrass, the film focuses on two captains – the Alabama’s Captain Richard Phillips (played by the incomparable Tom Hanks) and the self-appointed Somali captain Muse (played by Barkhad Abdi) who takes him hostage.
As a 47-year-old man, I’ve seen a lot of movies.  Few movies, however, are as nerve-wracking, suspenseful, and will have you on the edge-of-your-seat as Captain Phillips.  I can’t recommend this film enough.
The following are 21 Leadership Quotes And Lessons From Captain Phillips. ***Note: Spoilers Included***
  1. “I know this is our life but the world is moving so fast.” - Often, our life’s work and/or calling takes us out of our comfort zone.
  2. “Walk me through the plan.” – Trust your planning.  Phillips reminds all leaders of the importance of effective planning.  As a leader, I am learning more and more to trust my own plans when faced with challenges.
  3. “I want everything locked.  Even in port.” – The time to repair the roof is when the sun is shining.  Phillips reminds his crew to prepare for the worst during the best of times.
  4. “We cannot attack a herd.  This one is alone.” – This was the strategy implemented by the Somali warlords.  As Christians, we must diligently protect unity.
  5. Advanced Training – Knowing they were entering hostile waters with a history of piracy, Phillips gave his team the gift of advanced training.
  6. Leaders Make Hard, Unpopular Decisions – After warding off an initial pirate attack, Phillips had to confront a group of disgruntled union workers and re-focus them on the job at hand.
  7. 4 Committed Men Can Make A Significant Impact – 4 misguided Somali pirates turned the world upside-down for a few days.  Imagine what millions of unified, passionate Christians could do with the power of God.
  8. “Stick together and we will be alright.” – Leaders point to a brighter tomorrow.  Think about it – why else would you follow them?  Upon being boarded by the pirates, Phillips gives his crew hope for the future.
  9. Tribal Language – Throughout the movie, Phillips gave his crew, and later the military, hints through terms only they would understand.  All great organizations have a tribal language.  What is your’s?
  10. Past Mistakes Can Neutralize Your Leadership – I advised churches to look out for broken glass on the floor – past mistakes, trust issues, etc…  One of pirates did not own a pair of shoes.  The crew neutralized his effectiveness walking him through broken glass on the floor.
  11. “The problem isn’t me talking.  It’s you not listening.” – Great leaders are great listeners.  Throughout his hostage situation, Phillips continually gave Muse sound advice which he ignored.
  12. “I’ve come too far.  I can’t give up.” – Because of how the Somali warlords treat their people, Muse could not abort the mission despite the obvious need to do so.  Sin will always take you farther than you ever wanted to go, keep you longer than you ever wished to stay, and cost you more than you were ever willing to pay.
  13. “You’re not just a fisherman.” – Most people are meant for so much more than what they have settled for.  Phillips gave Muse a picture of what his value could be.  As leaders, we must continually give those we influence a picture of what God can do with their life.
  14. “We all got bosses.” – One person’s character does not determine mine or yours.  Muse was at the mercy of the Somali warlords.
  15. America Is Still A Symbol Of Hope For The World – Phillips tells Muse, “There’s got to be something more than being a fisherman and kidnapping people.”  To which Muse replies, “Maybe in America.” America needs to stop apologizing.  Even those who seem to hate us know what a great country we are privileged to live in.
  16. “You could have had $30,000 and been in Somalia.” – Greed destroys leaders.  The Somali pirates could have had $30,000 and a life boat back to their native country.  Instead, they chose to take Captain Phillips as a hostage in hopes of getting $1 million.
  17. The Importance Of Family – As Phillips felt he was about to die, it was interesting what he said.  All his thoughts were on his family – not his job, hobbies, or other things we put in primary positions of our life.
  18. “Stop The Tow.  Execute.” – The difference between average leaders and great leaders is the ability to execute under pressure.
  19. The Relationship Between Expectation And Excellence – Excellence become average and expected when that is all you deliver.  After killing the pirates, the SEALS quietly packed up their gear and just walked away.
  20. “Captain Phillips is free.  All your friends are dead.” – These were the words spoken by our military to Muse.  It is a reminder that servant leaders have a sustainable future.  Self-serving leaders have an unsustainable future.
  21. “You’re safe now.” – Military doctor.  Captain Phillips replies, “Thank you.” – I sleep comfortably at night knowing the quality of the troops and warriors protecting our country.  I echo Phillips’s words to our military – THANK YOU!!!
In closing, Captain Phillips is an incredible movie and gets my vote for Best Picture.  Let me know your thoughts.

10 Christian Women Bloggers You Should Be Reading In 2014

10 Christian Women Bloggers You Should Be Reading In 2014

http://youtu.be/LC0gRAr8UaM 

The video above of Cross Point Church senior pastor Pete Wilson and his wife Brandi discussing missed expectations in marriage is one of my favorites.  One of the many things I love about the video is the insight, perspective  and humor Brandi brings.
Brandi is just one of the many great female Christian bloggers we are blessed to currently have.  As these ladies show, churches that do not include women in key roles of influence are robbing their congregation of insights that can only come from a female perspective.
There are several Christian women bloggers like Brandi who I read regularly.  They expand my thinking, expose my blind spots, and make me a better leader.  The following are 10 Christian Women Bloggers You Should Be Reading In 2014, listed in alphabetical order.  This group will make you a better leader as well.
  • Jenni Catron - Jenni writes the website Leading In Shades Of Grey and serves as the Executive Director of Cross Point Church in Nashville, TN, a 10-year old multi-site church.  She leads the staff of Cross Point and oversees the church’s multiple campuses.
  • Mary DeMuth - An incredible author and blogger, Mary describes herself as the following: “I love Jesus, my sweet family, and my ordinary life.  My aspiration?  To help you live uncaged–to be able to fully embrace the freedom-infused life God has for you.”
  • Suzanne Eller - Suzie is a mom, a wife, a “Gaga” to four babies with one more on the way!  She is also a Proverbs 31 Ministries author and speaker, and a radio co-host of Encouragement Café.  Most of all she is “just a girl in love with her Savior.”
  • Margaret Feinberg - Margaret is a popular Bible teacher and speaker at churches and leading conferences such as Catalyst, Thrive and Extraordinary Women. Her books and Bible studies have sold over 600,000 copies and received critical acclaim and extensive national media coverage from CNN, the Associated Press, USA Today, Los Angeles Times, Washington Post and more.  She was recently named one of the 30 Voices who will help lead the church in the next decade by Charisma magazine and one of the ’40 Under 40’ who will shape Christian publishing by Christian Retailing magazine.
  • Jen Hatmaker - An accomplished author and speaker, Jen’s messages are constantly developing, but in general, her talks center on application discipleship, living on mission, serving the poor, biblical proficiency and obedience, and engaging God’s dreams for this planet.  Her post, Worst End Of The School Year Mom Ever, is one of the most-read blog posts ever written.
  • Leading And Loving It - As the site says, this blog is for pastors’ wives and women in ministry.  This incredible site is co-authored by a number of leading Christian ladies.  Lori Wilhite serves alongside her husband Jud who is the Senior Pastor at Central Christian Church in Las Vegas.  Brandi Wilson is married to Pete who’s the Senior Pastor at Cross Point Church in Nashville, Tennessee.  Along with her husband Herbert, Tiffany Cooper started Peoples Church in Oklahoma City in 2002.  David and Lisa Hughes have been at Church by the Glades in South Florida, where David serves as Senior Pastor, since 1998.  Bil and Jessica Cornelius planted Bay Area Fellowship in 1998 in Corpus Christi, TX. They also mentor Church Planters and their wives.
  • Priscilla Shirer - This world-renowned author, teacher, and speaker probably needs no introduction to anyone.  But just in case, in addition to Priscilla’s participation in many church and para-church conferences across the globe each year, Going Beyond Ministries hosts numerous events of its own which draw a wide variety of women from different age groups and backgrounds.
  • Lyn Smith – As someone very passionate about ending human trafficking, Lyn uses compassionate personal experience, the Bible, and God-given wisdom in her ministry to reveal the one and only way out of shackles and into a life of confidence—a real, personal relationship with Jesus.
  • Lysa TerKeurst - Lysa is a New York Times bestselling author and speaker who helps everyday women live an adventure of faith through following Jesus Christ. As president of Proverbs 31 Ministries, She has led thousands to make their walk with God an invigorating journey.
  • Wondherful – Site writer Heather Polacios is mother of 2 incredible boys and married to Raul, one of the pastors of Church By The Glades.  This blog is a constant source of encouragement and instruction to those wishing to live a prevailing life.
That is my list.  If you are not reading these incredible Christian leaders, you are not growing and reaching your full potential.
Pastors and church leaders, what additional female Christian bloggers would you recommend?

10 Practices Of Pastors Of Fast Growing Churches

10 Practices Of Pastors Of Fast Growing Churches

Pastor Derwin Gray
Pastor Derwin Gray
On Tuesday, October 29th The Rocket Company will be putting on a FREE online conference called Get More Volunteers.  As part of this event, I traveled to Charlotte, NC last Thursday to interview the incredible senior pastor of Transformation Church Derwin Gray.
Transformation Church has consistently appeared on the annual Outreach Magazine Top 100 Fastest Growing Church list.  As I sat with Pastor Derwin (see picture) it became very apparent one of the many reasons Transformation is growing so fast.  You cannot discount the impact a senior pastor has on church growth and Transformation has one of the best.
This list is woefully insufficient but while sitting with Pastor Derwin for two hours, I gleaned the following 10 Practices Of Pastors Of Fast Growing Churches.
To see our interview, click here and sign up for the October 29th conference.
  1. Pastors Of Fast Growing Churches Surround Themselves With Talented People – Our interview was filmed by the church’s production team.  Led by Taurin Hurley, this team of four was prepared, professional and went over-and-above to make sure I had everything I need to have a successful interview.
  2. Pastors Of Fast Growing Churches Remember Where They Came From – Earlier in the week, Pastor Derwin spoke at the Exponential Conference.  We discussed that nostalgic feeling which came over him while there.  It was four years ago when Pastor Derwin was in the audience as an attender.  He came down from the balcony to the altar where he was prayed over as he was launching the new church.
  3. Pastors Of Fast Growing Churches See The Best In People – There is nothing worse than pastors who do not appreciate those who attend their churches.  Pastor Derwin deeply, deeply believes that God can do anything in and through the lives of those at Transformation.
  4. Pastors Of Fast Growing Churches Have A Solid Biblical Foundation – I have seen enough Christian leadership to know anything not built on a biblical foundation is simply unsustainable.  Transformation’s vision of creating a multi-ethnic, multi-generational church flows directly from Pastor Derwin’s life and the pages of scripture.
  5. Pastors Of Fast Growing Churches Are Humble – Let me put this in proper perspective.  Pastor Derwin leads one of the most well-known churches in America.  He is an author and globally-renowned speaker.  He is a former professional football player.  He is in constant high-demand.  Do you know where you can find on almost any day – Starbucks just hanging out with people.  Amazing.
  6. Pastors Of Fast Growing Churches Never Forget What God Has Done For Them – We also filmed a second interview which will be shown in April.  Pastor Derwin was visibly, emotionally moved when we discussed his salvation experience.
  7. Pastors Of Fast Growing Churches Challenge The Status Quo – Pastors are most effectively challenged to get better by fellow pastors.  I have met few pastors who have the moral authority to bring accountability to their piers than Pastor Derwin.  Here is one of my favorite quotes from the second interview – “Pastors, I’ve got big biceps.  I can carry my own bags.”
  8. Pastors Of Fast Growing Churches Prioritize Their Family – Regardless of the success of the church, the book sales, and all the speaking engagements, nothing is more important to Pastor Derwin than Jesus and his family.
  9. Pastors Of Fast Growing Churches Are Extravagantly Generous – The second interview concluded by Pastor Derwin giving me some nice compliments.  As we often joke, my street cred goes up when I’m with him!  Great Christian leaders are always pointing to other people and promoting them.
  10. Pastors Of Fast Growing Churches Follow-Up Well – One hour after the interview’s conclusion, Pastor Derwin called me as I was driving home to follow-up on a couple of items.  I was reminded the best leaders follow-up well.
Surround Yourself With Talented People, Remember Where You Came From, See The Best In People, Have A Solid Biblical Foundation, Stay Humble, Remember What God Did For You, Challenge The Status Quo, Focus On Your Family, Be Extravangantly Generous, and Follow-Up Well.  If you do these 10 things, you too may lead a fast-growing church.

16 Things Churches Should Know About Regaining Lost Momentum

16 Things Churches Should Know About Regaining Lost Momentum

A ChurchLeaders.com article states “Well-known church researcher and author Thom Rainer notes that the failure of churches to keep up with the population growth is one of the Church”s greatest issues heading into the future. In a 2002 survey of 1,159 U.S. churches, Rainer”s research team found that only 6% of the churches were growing — he defines growth as not only increasing in attendance, but also increasing at a pace faster than its community”s population growth rate. Stated inversely, 94% of our churches are losing ground in the communities they serve.”
Let that sink in for a moment – 94% of churches are losing ground.  But what can churches do to regain this lost momentum?  In a search for answers, I came across an unusual source.
This past Sunday, New England Patriots quarterback Tom Brady led a historic last-minute comeback against the New Orleans Saints.  When all hope seemed lost, when everything was working against him, when no answers seemed available, Brady regained lost momentum and led his team to victory.
http://youtu.be/NHlMNQQFZC4
Bleacher Report writer Erik Frenz took an in-depth look at the final drive.  As I read his analysis, I discovered 16 Things Churches Should Know About Regaining Lost Momentum.  You can read Frenz’s full article by clicking here.
  1. Churches Should Know They Will Go Through Ups And Downs – We are in a cosmic battle between Heaven and Hell.  As a result, there is a constant ebb and flow to ministry.  Don’t be naive or have unrealistic expectations.
  2. Churches Should Know Failure Is Not Final - Heading into the final drive, Brady had only completed 4 of 15 second half passes.
  3. Churches Should Know Decisiveness And Correct Decisions Are Needed To Regaining Lost Momentum - The first completion of the drive was a 23-yard pass to Julian Edelman.  Because of the Saints defense, this pass required decisiveness and accuracy.
  4. Churches Should Know A Good Start Is Necessary To Regaining Lost Momentum - When asked what was the key to the successful drive, Edelman said, “Just getting it started…We started it off, played with urgency.”
  5. Churches Should Know Upgrading Talent Is Often Necessary To Regaining Lost Momentum - Austin Collie caught Brady’s second pass for 15 yards.  He had joined the team just 10 days prior.
  6. Churches Should Know Removing Clutter Is Necessary To Regaining Lost Momentum – What needs to be removed for your ministry to moved forward?  One of the things that allowed Brady to complete the second pass was a comfortable and uncluttered pocket.
  7. Churches Should Know Preparation Is Necessary To Regaining Lost Momentum – What allowed Brady to complete his third pass of the drive, six yards to Aaron Dobson, was the Saints’s lack of preparation for the pace of the Patriots’s offense.
  8. Churches Should Know You Cannot Be Passive If You Want To Regain Lost Momentum – Brady’s fourth pass of the drive fell incomplete.  This was the result of a creative blitz run by the Saints defense.  The rest of the drive they elected to play with passivity and ultimately lost.  Passive churches will also lose.
  9. Churches Should Know They Must Rely On People They Can Trust To Regain Lost Momentum – Though the fifth pass of the drive also fell incomplete, Brady was continually targeting Edelman, his most trusted receiver.
  10. Churches Should Know Making Strategic Adjustments Is Necessary To Regain Lost Momentum – Brady’s sixth pass was a 9-yard completion to Collie.  What makes this play unique is for the first time in the drive, the Patriots changed up their personnel on the field.
  11. Churches Should Know Regaining Lost Momentum Is Often Birthed From Necessity – The changing of personnel was primarily due to Edelman having to leave the game after two consecutive hard hits.
  12. Churches Should Know Confidence Must Be Earned To Regain Lost Momentum – Brady said, ”[Collie has] earned the confidence of everybody so we had a situation where we put him on the field and see what he could do and see if he could help us win a game and he did.”
  13. Churches Should Know You Must Fight And Persevere To Regain Lost Momentum - After catching the 17-yard touchdown pass, rookie wide receiver Kenbrell Thompkins said, “”We just knew that it was going to come down to the last minute.  Until that clock said all zeros on it, we were going to fight until the finish. And that’s what we did, we just went out there and fought to the finish.”
  14. Churches Should Know You Must Expect A Lot From Your Leaders To Regain Lost Momentum – Great leaders are asked to do a lot.  This was the 28th career fourth quarter comeback for Brady.
  15. Churches Should Know Great Leaders Must Make Others Better To Regain Lost Momentum – This is the least impressive group of receivers Brady has ever had to work with.
  16. Churches Should Know You Can Never Lose Hope If You Want To Regain Lost Momentum – As long as Brady is playing quarterback for the Patriots, the team will always have a chance to win.

Tuesday, October 8, 2013

23 LEADERSHIP QUOTES AND LESSONS FROM GRACE UNPLUGGED : THE MUST SEE FATHER-DAUGHTER MOVIE OF THE YEAR

http://youtu.be/bVWtWFHZF4g 
Today my family went to see the new movie Grace Unplugged.  This incredible film is the story of the talented 18-year-old Grace Trey who has desires of a larger platform than the one provided by her local church and worship leading father Johnny played by James Denton.
After recording a demo which would later become a Top-10 hit, Grace (played by AJ Michalka) leaves for Los Angeles against the wishes of her father.
Johnny was a previous one-hit wonder who gave his life to Jesus Christ after experiencing the underbelly of the music business.  As a result, he has tried everything to protect his talented daughter from the same destructive lifestyle.
This is the feel-good, must-see family movie of the year.  The following are 23 leadership quotes and lessons that every father and daughter can learn from:
  1. “Music is unpredictable.” – Success is always temporary.  Johnny reminds us the only constant in our life is Jesus Christ.
  2. “All dads do brilliant teaching moments.” – It is the nature of Christian fathers to constantly be leaving a legacy in their children’s lives.
  3. “You always wanted your life to be about God.  These days it’s all about you.” – Rebellion is a sign that everything in our life has become about us.
  4. Opportunity Does Not Equal Obligation – When Johnny’s old manager Mossy, played by Kevin Pollack re-enters his life, Johnny understands choosing to leave his church and return to a life on the road would be a poor choice.
  5. Wise People Learn From The Mistakes Of Others – Rather than learning from her father’s experience, Gracie chooses to secretly sign with Mossy.
  6. The Timing Of Counterfeits – God will complete His work in our lives.  However, the enemy often provides counterfeit relationships and opportunities right before God provides the real thing.  You must be patient.
  7. God Must Always Be Placed In The Position Of Preeminence In Every Area Of Your Life – To be successful, Grace was forced to give up singing Christ-centered music.
  8. Sin Has A Pleasurable Season – Right after signing with the record company, Grace was given cash and a nice apartment.  The pleasure of sin has a season.  It just also has a price you cannot afford to pay.
  9. “Be great.  Relax.  Don’t screw it up.” – Mossy told Grace this right before your first performance.  The world’s love is conditional.  By contrast, the love of Jesus is unconditional.
  10. “You are not ready for this.” - For Christians, it is better to wait for opportunities, to be summoned, rather than forcing your way into opportunities.  Wait for God to bring you the opportunity.  When God opens the doors, you can presuppose He has equipped you to go through them.
  11. “It’s not about the music.  It is everything that goes with it.” – Leaders must see the full impact of their decisions.
  12. You Can’t Live On Your Parents’s Faith – You can’t live off your parent’s faith forever.  Grace goes through a brokenness experience which forced her to make her faith her own.
  13. “God may not be using you in Grace’s life right now.  But He is in control.  We must trust Him to be faithful.” – All fathers must eventually give their children fully to God and trust Him to take care of them.  For the record, I’m not there yet.
  14. “Your body is your best asset.  Sometimes you have to spend it.” – Gracie was told this by a fellow singer.  Women, never allow people to view you as a throw-away object.  You are a treasure that God has a wonderful plan for.
  15. “If she can’t handle the pressure, on to the next contestant.” – Once again, this statement reflects the conditional love of the world.  You will be used for everything they can get out of you.  Then you will be discarded as they move onto the next person.
  16. Normal Is Grossly Underrated – Grace begins her turnaround by having a normal family dinner with a co-worker.  There is something wonderful comforting and secure about a simple family meal together.
  17. “She’s phenomenal.  She had the best teacher.” – What parents do in moderation, children do in excess.
  18. “It doesn’t make me happy.  It makes it official.” – Spoken by Grace after securing her record deal.  Few things are as sad as climbing the ladder of success and when arriving at the top, realizing it was leaning against the wrong wall.
  19. “You’re Top 20.  It doesn’t matter if you can write.” – Successful organizations put resources around top people to compensate for their weaknesses.
  20. “Nothing ever made me happier than playing music with you.” – Spoken by Johnny to his daughter Grace.  As a father, I understand what he is saying.  I am never happier than taking quiet walks with my daughter.
  21. “This is what it feels like when you make it.” – No amount of success is satisfying unless it is found in Jesus Christ.
  22. God Does Great Things When You’re On Your Knees – It is through our pain that God draws us close to Him and subsequently does His greatest work in our lives.
  23. “The apple doesn’t fall far from the tree.  It’s time to go home.” – For some of you reading this post, you have made some terrible mistakes.  There is forgiveness to be found in Jesus.  It’s time to come home.
I can’t recommend enough everyone see this movie.  It will be one of, if not the best movie you see all year.

44 Leadership Quotes From Tony Dungy And His Book Quiet Strength

44 Leadership Quotes From Tony Dungy And His Book Quiet Strength

Quiet Strength: The Principles, Practices, and Priorities of a Winning Life
Tony Dungy is universally admired and respected for good reason.  Very few men have the moral authority that he does.  One of my favorite leadership books is his classic Quiet Strength.  As a gift to you, the following are my favorite leadership quotes from that book.
  • When it’s over, it’s over is part of football’s greatest appeal to me.  When a game ends, win or lose, it’s time to prepare for the next one.
  • It’s the journey that matters.  Learning is more important than the test.  Practice well, and the games will take care of themselves.
  • A good teacher is one who helps everybody earn an A. - Dr. Wilbur Dungy
  • What’s important is not the accolades and memories of success but the way you respond when opportunities are denied.
  • I need to treat everybody fairly but fair doesn’t always mean equal.
  • And if God has given you a lot of ability, I believe you should be held to a higher level of expectation.
  • Success is uncommon and not to be enjoyed by the common man. I’m looking for uncommon people because we want to be successful, not average. - Coach Cal Stoll
  • If you want to win, do the ordinary things better than anyone else does them day in and day out. - Coach Chuck Noll
  • I was able to look at football as something that God was allowing me to do, not something that should define me.  I couldn’t take my identity from this sport.
  • At the end of the day, the only people a One Voice doctrine silences are those who should be the most loyal.
  • There are certain bridges that are not worth crossing, no matter what others think. Loyalty and relationships are important.
  • I needed to do my current job well, keep preparing, and wait on God’s timing.  I needed to trust His leadership rather than try to force an outcome I wanted.
  • Winning would create greater potential for change than talk alone.
  • I learned it doesn’t matter how you win.  You play to your team’s strength.
  • Once we had become locked in on a schedule, he (Coach Denny Green) often created a disruption (artificial adversity) to that schedule just to see how guys would respond.
  • We wanted guys who had been productive in college, and we made it a point to pick performance over potential.
  • We only wanted to pay significant sums to keep truly special players.
  • They were unwillingly to give 100 percent if they didn’t personally think it was important.  What you don’t understand is the champions know it’s all important.
  • Watch the film, not the stopwatch. - Coach Chuck Noll
  • I found that while life drags on when you’re losing, it marches on when you’re winning.
  • We spent our whole married life in the ultracompetitive world of professional football, Lauren and I had always tried to view it through God’s eyes.  As much fun as it was to be winning, we tried not to get caught up in it.  We knew that our family life and our faith walk were more important.
  • God’s definition of success is really one of the significant difference our lives can make in the lives of others.
  • Excellence that feels is has to be proclaimed, by the mere fact of its proclamation admits the doubt of its existence. – CleoMae Dungy
  • Once a player joins our team, our priority is to teach him, not worry about the player we didn’t select.
  • If I can’t get the captains to respond appropriately and show the leadership I expect, how is anyone else going to respond?
  • The best solution for falling just short of the goal is to focus on the fundamentals but perform them better.
  • There’s a difference between making incremental improvements and making sweeping changes that take you away from your core values.
  • We believed it was not our formations that made us good, but rather how we played.
  • I hired top-notch people, trusted them to do their jobs, and then came to grips with the fact that I wouldn’t be coaching as much.
  • Change isn’t always bad; we should always be learning and improving.  But the change I was seeing involved principles, not procedures.
  • God allows us to feel pain for a reason: to protect us.
  • Pain prompts us to change behavior that is destructive to ourselves or to others.  Pain can be a highly effective instructor.
  • And as a football coach in the National Football League, I know for sure that it’s going to end someday.
  • A good leader gets people to follow him because they want to, not because he makes them.
  • I can’t very well preach unity and tell the guys we’re all in this together and everyone’s important, then cut a guy because we might improve by one percent if we bring in someone else.
  • If we do what we do without panicking, we can accomplish great things.
  • Football is a vocation and an opportunity for ministry.  But it’s not a life.
  • Keeping ridiculous hours doesn’t mean you’ll be successful.
  • At some point in life’s journey, professionally and personally, we have to be able to trust our preparation.
  • What’s important is not the uniform or the number, and it’s not what team you play for or whether anyone else sees your value; it’s who you are on the inside.  And when you’re in Christ, that’s never going to change.
  • First, there is no typical grief cycle, and second, it’s not something I went through.  I’m still grieving.
  • (Offensive Coach) Paul Hackett realized that Joe Montana knew more about the offense than he did, but when the meeting was over, Paul saw that Joe had taken three pages of notes.  He documented exactly how Paul wanted to run the play, as well as all of the basics of it and its details. That’s what a professional does.
  • Being stubborn is a virtue when you’re right; it’s only a character flaw when you’re wrong. - Coach Chuck Noll
  • I love coaching football, and winning a Super Bowl was a goal I’ve had for a long time.  But it has never been my purpose in life.  My purpose in life is simply to glorify God.  We have to be careful that we don’t let the pursuit of our life’s goals, no matter how important they seem, cause us to lose sight of our purpose.  I coach football.  But the good I can do to glorify God along the way is my real purpose.