Today I have a special gift for you. Chris Lautsbaugh has
been in ministry and missions for over twenty years, teaching and
ministering in over 35 countries. He is currently living and serving in
South Africa with Youth With a Mission. He has spent years training
student from around the world in discipleship and Biblical training as
they prepare to be missionaries. He also operates the wonderful website
No SuperHeroes.
I have interacted with Chris for several years online and recently
met him in person at the Catalyst Conference. He is a leader you should
know about. The following is a guest post from Chris which really
challenged me. I am honored to pass it along to you.
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My first leadership experience was as an 11-year-old in Boy Scouts.
As a newly christened “Assistant Patrol Leader”, I led as I had seen
others leading. Experience said the way in which you led other pre-teen
peers was through yelling and screaming, using all of your newly learned
expletives until finally the group accomplished the task. Unfortunately
my model came through watching the 12 and 13-year-old leaders!
Some leaders never outgrow this style.
They refine it, dropping the cursing, but maintaining the control and
the “no questions asked” style. Hollywood promotes this style with
military drill sergeants and gruff police captains.
As we grow in our leadership, we realize the limits of this
style’s effectiveness. We come to understand a need to value people, not
absolute obedience.
Here are 8 traits of grace filled leadership:
1. Emphasis on principles rather than rules - Rules
modify behavior, principles change hearts. Anyone can adjust their
lifestyle for a season or adhere to a structure. Lives are truly changed
through transformation rather than conformity. When we focus on
principles, it teaches people wisdom which works in a multitude of
situations.
2. Valuing people - It is easy to view people as a
means to success in our teams. If our people feel cared for and valued
for who they are, not merely what they do; we will have their hearts and
their loyalty. This involves listening to our people and finding ways
to serve them; all motivated by a desire to see them succeed.
3. Push towards excellence, leaving room for failure -
As gracious leaders, we know our own shortcomings and failures. This
gives us the ability to push people towards success while also allowing
them to make mistakes. After all, people allowed us to learn some of our
greatest lessons through failure. No one wants to work for a leader who
demands perfection.
4. Allows different opinions while promoting commonalities -
One of the leading traits of controlling leaders is insecurity.
Insecure leaders hurt people. Gracious leaders recognize the need to
surround themselves with other strong leaders, valuing differing
strengths and ideas.
5. Confronts personally - Gracious leadership is not
a free for all with no confrontation. Rather, the confrontation
occurs in a manner which values the team member. You want to avoid
general announcements or side comments to a group. Value people
enough to say the hard things to them face to face.
6. Allows people to experience the consequences of their actions -
Another misconception of grace is “sloppy agape”. True grace realizes
lessons are often learned through experiencing the result of a bad
decision and learning from it. Grace does not remove consequences or
attempt to protect people from their bad decisions. Titus 2:12 tells us,
“grace trains…”
7. Believes the best - We must trust our people;
doing away with judgment, critical spirits, and suspicious attitudes.
This value allows us to truly release people to do the job, avoiding the
dreaded dirty delegation or micro-management.
8. Willing to be abused - Grace filled leaders often
get accused of being taken advantage of. People naturally look for
loopholes or ways to work the system. But, this happens in rule-based
leadership as well. The potential for abuse does not disqualify the
leadership style. A few will work the system, but more will flourish and
thrive under this style of leadership.
The greatest example of a grace filled leader is Jesus himself. Read
through the list again and you will see Jesus modeled every one of these
traits.
I have run an international Bible school for many years. Our students
study all 66 books of the Bible in nine months. Aside from Biblical
revelation, one of the greatest takeaways students refer to is observing
a new style of leadership. It matches up with what they are learning
from the Scripture, bringing healing from leadership abuse in the past.
Grace filled leaders are not perfect, but we know this.
In a world filled with heroes falling every week, we need better
examples of leadership. People who are concerned with changing hearts
rather than merely modifying behavior or accomplishing tasks.
What are other traits of gracious leadership you would add to this list?
How have you been impacted by examples of this kind of leadership?