Monday, July 24, 2017

Take Time on the Mountain


Take Time on the Mountain

Stand on the mountaintop and look at the land around about you, my child. For your journey has sent you in many directions and now as you stand, realize that I have brought you here to look at the land before you and to plan for the next steps that you need to take.
For not every part of the journey is hard work and pushing through. There are also seasons where you need to sit and wait, where you need to rest and listen. Then, I can tell you the next steps that you must take. So take this time to listen. Open up your eyes to see so that I can show you the way that is ahead.
For while you are in the thick of battle it is hard to see the outcome. When you are running hard on your road, it is easy sometimes to lose sight of the goal. So allow me to take you to the mountaintop and to bring you to a season of quiet so you can listen and so that you can see. Do not be discouraged then if I close some doors so that I might draw you to myself. For now is the time for you to hide away with me for a little while.
For when you leave this place, you will have eyes to see once again and you will have a clear vision in your heart of where to go next. So take this time. Do not rush this time and allow me to plot the course for the next journey ahead, says the Lord.

7 Facts About The Incredible Impact Leaders Have On Others (Contains Inspirational Video)


Leadership is influence.  As a result, leaders have a disproportionate ability to impact a person’s life in either a positive or negative way.  A great leader can make us think we can accomplish anything.  Bad leaders can destroy our confidence and self-image.
I thought about this watching the video above.  In the movie For The Love Of The Game, Kevin Costner plays Billy Chapel, a 40-year-old pitcher playing his last game.  As each inning passes, Chapel reflects on his life and struggles with how empty it is despite his fame and fortune.
At the start of the 8th inning, catcher Gus Sinski, played by John C. Reilly, gives Chapel the pep talk he needs to finish the game strong.  Their encounter reveals 7 Facts About The Incredible Impact Leaders Have On Others:
  1. Many Leaders Have No Comprehension Of The Level Of Impact They Are Having On Others – Chapel asks Sinski, “Has anybody been on base?”
  2. Great Leaders Impact Others By Giving Their Teams Experiences They Would Otherwise Never Have Had – Referring to catching a perfect game, Sinski says, “Chapy, I never have (seen anything like this.”
  3. Great Leaders Often Experience Great Doubt – Facing exhaustion, Chapel admitted, “I don’t know if I have anything left.”
  4. Great Leaders Not Only Need A Great Team Around Them To Be Successful, They Need A Great Team With Great Loyalty – Sinski comforted Chapel by reminding him, “The boys are all here for you.  We’ll back you up.  We’ll be there.”
  5. Great Leaders Impact Others By Giving You A Picture Of What You Can Be  – “Billy, we don’t stink right now.  We’re the best team in baseball right now, right this minute because of you.  You’re the reason”
  6. Great Leaders Impact Others By Giving People The Confidence They Can Accomplish Anything – Sinski declared, “We’re not going to screw that up.  We’re going to be awesome for you.”
  7. Smart Leaders Impact Others By Doing What Only They Can Do – Sinski’s final words were, “Just throw.”
Of course, Chapel gets the last six outs, throws a perfect game, and gets the girl.  May these seven lessons help you also do something perfect today!
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No Confidence in the Flesh

No Confidence in the Flesh
“It is the Spirit who gives life;
the flesh profits nothing.”
JOHN 6:63

If we grow impatient and fall into the flesh then we become weaker. To react in the flesh diminishes spiritual authority, and this must be avoided at all costs. Allowing the flesh to have its way for only a moment guarantees defeat against a spiritual adversary.


“We worship God in the Spirit, and rejoice in Christ Jesus, and have no confidence in the flesh” (Philippians 3:3). To lose all confidence in the flesh is to take the higher ground of the Spirit. To meet flesh with flesh means the victory will go to the strongest, and there is always someone stronger than you according to the flesh.


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Live Blog From InCite 2017 – 40 Leadership Quotes From Perry Noble

Today I will be live blogging from the InCite 2017 Conference in Durham, NC.  InCite is about equipping you, whether a church or marketplace Leader, to lead without limits!
Injoy Stewardship Solutions has dispatched me to attend this amazing event as a way to invest in your growth.  They also want to invest in your leadership by offering you our latest FREE ebook Breaking The Next Growth Barrier: 10 Things Pastors Can Do To Break Down Growth Barriers by clicking HERE for your complimentary copy.
The morning’s final speaker was Perry Noble.  Perry is the founder and CEO of The Growth Company, an organization that is devoted to the success of other people.  He has also become a very good friend.
The following are 40 leadership quotes I captured from Perry’s very transparent session:
  1. I grew up in a Wesleyan church. They were saved.  Just mad about it.
  2. Before you build a multi-cultural ministry you have to be a multi-cultural person.
  3. One of the things I’m seeing in the church is a leader not executing the decision that needs to be made.
  4. When it comes to creativity, Disney has a mouse. We have the Holy Spirit.  The Holy Spirit trumps the mouse every single time.
  5. It’s not vision that’s missing in the church.
  6. Ideas are crap. It’s execution that matters.  Jesus will not say, “Well thought.”  He will say, “Well done.”
  7. I don’t camp. I worked too hard to pretend to be homeless.
  8. When a person in a wartime situation seeks comfort more than obedience, that person will cease to be effective.
  9. Millennials leaving the church. What an opportunity for the church to make some changes and execute on reaching an unreached people group in our own backyard.
  10. God has never called the church to a fair fight. He will always set it up so He will get the glory.
  11. If the leader lives in fear, so will the people he or she leads.
  12. I believe in the power of prayer. But I also believe in perspiration.  Many church leaders are replacing hard work with prayer.  Did Noah pray the ark into existence?
  13. You didn’t qualify me and you can’t unqualify me.
  14. I’m not sure I want the Pharisees affirming my ministry.
  15. Thank God for women in the ministry. If it wouldn’t have been for the women we wouldn’t known the tomb was empty.
  16. If you want to do something that’s great, you got to be willing to handle the hate.
  17. Don’t let people on social media who have digital courage affect what God has called you to do.
  18. Don’t you love it when people who won’t do something tell you you can’t do something?
  19. If you haven’t done something, I don’t have to listen to your theory.
  20. The church is the only one dumb enough to buy books from people who haven’t done anything.
  21. Have you ever thought insecure parents are the ones who gave millennials 8th place trophies?
  22. If you’re going to reach millennials, you have to reach them on their phone.
  23. If you’re considering suicide, you need to be willing to ask for help.
  24. One of the biggest lies people say from the stage is, “All I need is Jesus.” Why did Jesus surround himself with community?
  25. Sometimes your presence is actually better than prayer.
  26. Jesus did not stand in Heaven and pray for us. He humbled Himself and came down to us.
  27. Here’s what you need to know about your pastor. He or she is really messed up.
  28. I drank too much and got fired. If I would have put on 75 lbs no one would have said a word.
  29. If a pastor is struggling, bring in an expert in that area, professional help.
  30. If I could do one thing over, I would have asked for help a lot sooner.
  31. I’m not mad at anybody.
  32. I did not meet one bad person in rehab. I just met good people who made bad decisions.
  33. In rehab God allowed me to recapture my pastor’s heart.
  34. If people follow Jesus long enough, eventually they will walk away from sin.
  35. There’s something great God is still doing in me.
  36. The best way I can serve the local church is to actually build one. I will be back in local church ministry one day.
  37. Instead of course correcting I celebrate doing the next right thing.
  38. What I know about people with arms folded (in disgust) is they have no lost friends.
  39. Alcohol is a truth serum. Let them have two drinks and ask them why they don’t go to church.
  40. Church people need to quit expecting unchurched people to live Godly lives.
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5 Signs Of An Ineffective Leader


Have you ever worked for an ineffective leader?  It is simply a measurement in self-control as you wait for that person to improve, be transferred, or even replaced.  So what are the warning signs of an ineffective leader?
Recently, the team at BELAY Solutions wrote an incredible post about ineffective virtual team managers.  As I read their post I had two thoughts – 1. This principles apply to anyone in a leadership position and 2. My audience needs this content.
Before getting to their post, last month hundreds of took advantage of BELAY’s free ebook 9 Reasons To ReThink Your Approach To Staffing.  It is an incredible resource.  BELAY’s CEO Bryan Miles and review four additional case studies at the end to reconsider your approach to staffing!  Click HERE or on the images provided to get your FREE Ebook now.
Now as promised, the following is 5 Signs Of An Ineffective Leader:
It’s not unusual for people to reach roles of increasing seniority without going through strategic training or formal preparation for advancement. This, alone, is not necessarily a cause for undue caution, as examples abound of managers who honed their skills through on-the-job exposure, unofficial mentorship or just a personal commitment to hard work and self-directed learning.
But this also means that a number of supervisors and managers achieved roles of influence without the benefit of formal leadership development programs, absent incremental steps in the vetting process and without true procedural accountability. The good news is that many leadership skills can be taught – or leaders in development have a natural affinity for them. Skills like good communication, positive interpersonal rapport, time management, customer service and adherence to policy are par for the course when it comes to inspiring teams, supervising people and being accountable for processes.
But what about the strengths needed to manage a virtual team as a remote employee? Experience and anecdotes show that those who oversee remote teams need to maintain age-old managerial best practices, but there are some particulars that set such leaders apart. For example, in Training Industry, BELAY’s Tricia Sciortino talks about the importance of three factors in managing virtual teams effectively – being technologically aware, focusing on employee culture and being mindful of employment laws.
On the other side of the coin, however, there may be clues that a remote manager just isn’t up to the task. So what are some signs that a manager of virtual teams is failing or would benefit from additional development? These signal a potentially slippery slope in the efficacy of your virtual team’s manager.

They’re out of sight – and seem to be out of mind.

It’s one thing for a remote employee to report to someone they rarely see or may never meet in person. That can be negotiated through technology and purposeful, consistent outreach. But it’s another to work for an individual who routinely “ghosts” the team or seems to be operating almost entirely in the shadows. Perhaps they never learned by example how to manage remotely or maybe they’re conflicted over what leadership looks like in a virtual structure. Either way, when leaders of virtual teams seem inaccessible or are unresponsive, and when they are not proactive about communicating, they are abdicating core responsibilities.

Their communication leaves much to be desired.Poor-Communication

Not everyone has the gift of gab (in fact, introverts can be good leaders), but managers who do their jobs virtually must showcase a strong competency for communication, and that doesn’t just mean talking. This pertains to all forms of outreach and correspondence such as email, voicemail, instant messaging, collaborative documents and text messages. Content that is ambiguous, instructions that are unclear, next steps that are left incomplete and feedback that unintentionally sets the wrong tone are signs that a managerial communications tune-up is in order.

They measure time spent online (or anywhere else), not results.

Some organizations use time-tracking software and other tools intended to monitor virtual employees’ presence and productivity. Such tools can provide valuable metrics that affect time management and overall efficiency. But some managers still appraise performance according to indicators such as these, which monitor things like keystrokes, mouse clicks or even webcam activity. This is the virtual equivalent of micromanaging according to how long a remote worker sits at his or her desk – a shortsighted and incomplete way to assess distributed workforces. On a related note, according to Gallup, adopting a strengths-based model for assessing performance is more informative and enlightening than the annual review (which, in some organizations, does focus on tasks and time rather than outcomes).

They’re impersonal.Impersonal-Manager

When people work from home, it takes more effort, avenues and resources to stay connected. It also takes a deliberate approach to create and sustain workplace relationships. With a virtual team, there is no watercooler. There’s no breakroom, and there are no rides in the elevator for casual chats or quick catch-ups. Virtual managers have no lesser reason to know the basics about the people on their team, from birthdays and hobbies to personal factors that could be influencing work-life flow. In this Atlantic piece about “The Fear of Feelings at Work,” psychologist Susan David details the benefits of managers viewing their employees more holistically. And this includes some degree of emotional connectivity.

They blame technology (or anything else).

Just because people work remotely doesn’t demand that they become IT wizards overnight – if ever. But those who serve on a virtual basis must develop some level of familiarity and comfort with technology. So much of the work done away from a physical office depends on technology. From cloud-based document collaboration and storage applications to online meeting and presentation software, work-from-homers rely on technology to do their jobs. Managers, if even they use only a few programs on a consistent basis, must work to stay technologically open and informed.
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15 Leadership Quotes And Lessons From War For The Planet Of The Apes


Today I saw War For The Planet Of The Apes.  I’m torn.  The make-up, cinematography, and acting, especially the performance of Andy Serkis as Caesar, is magnificent.  Unfortunately, the story drags on in places and is, well often boring.  Too much time was spent tracking the Colonel and in a concentration camp.  In fact, maybe it was the result of some travel challenges I had on Saturday, but I briefly fell asleep.  Once again, it could just be me.  I would love to hear your thoughts.
In this movie, Caesar basically plays the role of Moses.  He leads his people out of bondage, through the desert and into the promised land.  SPOILER ALERT – and he also does not get to enter the promised land but will become a legendary figure.
There is one GD during the climatic battle scene.  This movie is simply a tour de force for Andy Serkis.  Hugh Jackman in Logan is still my Oscar favorite but Serkis should be nominated.  If you want to see an iconic acting performance, then see this movie.
The following are 15 Leadership Quotes And Lessons From War For The Planet Of The Apes:
  1. Great Leaders Protect Their Teams – Caesar said, “Koba started this war.  I fight only to protect apes.”
  2. There Are Costs All Successful Leaders Must Be Willing To Pay – Because of Caesar’s influence and position, it resulted in his wife and son being killed by the Colonel.
  3. If You Want To Travel Fast Travel Alone.  If You Want To Travel Far You Will Need A Team. – Caesar set out alone to gain revenge on the Colonel.  However, some of his most loyal allies joined him on the journey.
  4. Great Communicators Make Memorable Statements – Caesar gave his memorable quote several times throughout the movie, “Apes together strong.”
  5. Great Leaders Protect Those Who Cannot Protect Themselves – After finding an orphaned girl, Caesar told Maurice, “We can’t take her Maurice.”  To which he replied, “I know but I can’t leave her alone.”
  6. Great Leaders Have A Sole Focus – Caesar had one objective throughout the movie – find and kill the Colonel.  And he was willing to go alone if he had to.
  7. Great Leaders Leave A Great Legacy – Caesar said, “This is my fight. I may not make it back. Make sure my son knows who his father was.”
  8. One Person’s Character Does Not Determine Yours – Caesar told the Colonel, “I did not start this war. I offered you peace. I showed you mercy. But now you’re here. To finish us off… for good.”
  9. Great Leaders Give Their People Courage – While imprisoned in a concentration camp, Caesar gave the other apes the courage to quit being slaves.
  10. Great Leaders Make Great Sacrifices For Their Teams – After stopping their work, the Colonel began flogging a random ape as punishment.  Caesar then stepped in and took the flogging on behalf of the ape under his leadership.
  11. Great Leaders Meet Their Team’s Basic Needs – Caesar requested of the Colonel, “Apes need food and water.”
  12. Great Leaders Give People An Ethos, Culture and Identity – With Caesar facing death, the other apes all gave him the sign “Apes Together Strong!”  Leadership and vision had been transferred.
  13. Great Leaders Must Pace Themselves To Have Something Left After Achieving Success – Did you know more people dying coming down after ascending Mount Everest than climbing it?  The principle is many leaders give everything they have for a task and have nothing left afterwards.  After freeing the apes and getting them to their final home in the desert, Caesar died.
  14. There Is No Success Without Succession – Caesar’s final words were “Apes are strong with or without me.”
  15. Do Not Prioritize Work Over Family – Caesar died with his right-hand ape Maurice beside him rather than his family.  Poor choice.
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Saturday, July 8, 2017

Being Known by Your Community: The Math of the Kingdom

Being Known by Your Community: The Math of the Kingdom

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“As leaders, we must not only cast vision for an ‘invite culture’ at our church, but we must also equip our church to do it.”

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If you aren’t planting a church any time soon, is there anything you can glean from the church-planting movement that will help you transform your established church into an establishing church?
For a series we call The Math of the Kingdom, we reached out to several church-planting networks and posed this question to some of their seasoned, in-the-trenches planters. Their responses revealed six strategic themes that any pastor can implement in any context: know your community; be known by your community; pursue diversity; develop leadership; make disciples; and adopt a planter’s heart.
No matter the age or size of the church you lead, it factors into the math of the kingdom. Explore these strategies, ideas and insights to see how they can contribute to multiplication in your church.

Principle No. 2: Being Known by Your Community

DAVID PARKER, SummitLIFE in Sedona, Arizona: First, personally set the example by engaging in community events and inviting others within their sphere of influence to join them. Second, plan for the church community to engage in what the local community already has on the books: St. Patrick’s Day parade, Fourth of July celebration, Thanksgiving food drive, Santa Claus coming to town, etc. Third, ask your local community leaders how they feel your church community could best help to carry out the city’s goals and desires.

JUSTIN DAILEY, The Action Church in Winter Springs, Florida: When we moved to the Orlando, Florida, area in the summer of 2013, we made it a goal to let someone know about Action Church every day. I truly believe the best marketing tool is a personal invite. Something powerful happens when someone shares their journey and invites others to come and see what Jesus has done.
As leaders, we must not only cast vision for an “invite culture” at our church, but we must also equip our church to do it. We brand our series, give our members invite cards and shareable graphics for social media, and have outreaches—all with the goal of reaching new people.
Another thought on marketing relates to the importance of making sure what we are selling matches what we are delivering. It would be a bad first impression if your experience did not match your marketing campaign.

JOSE ABELLA, Providence Road Church in Miami: First, partner with neighborhood schools, parks, community centers and neighborhood associations. There is no better marketing tool than mobilizing people who wear church “swag” and participate, support and contribute to needs. Making a tangible, sizable group presence in a community goes a long way.
Secondly, social media is a must. Assign a staff member or volunteer to develop a robust presence on social media platforms such as Facebook, Twitter and Instagram. People who visit the church’s social media pages should have a good handle on events and service times, as well was a clear means to understand the core values and distinctives of the church.

Principle No. 3: Pursuing Diversity »

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11 Ways Pastors Can Reignite Evangelism in Their Churches

11 Ways Pastors Can Reignite Evangelism in Their Churches

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It’s not by hiring staff.
It’s not by starting building projects.
And it’s definitely not by doing direct mail and advertising.
I believe in advertising, but in the same way publishers know that great marketing will only make a bad book fail faster, evangelistically passionate senior pastors know marketing will only give a false sense of excitement and growth. Eventually, you’ll go right back to where you started when the effect of the advertising wears off.
Re-engaging your congregation in evangelism first starts by allowing God to change our hearts, and then by turning our attention to the congregations we serve and taking massive action.
Here, in no certain order, are some ways I’ve found that have helped the congregations I’ve served re-engage in evangelism once they’ve stopped:

1. Tell them you’ve lost your way.

But also say you have gone before Jesus and have asked him to change your heart. Literally tell them this from the stage, in an email, through a blog post and any other way that you can get the word out. Then don’t stop until every single person has heard about it.

2. Ask for your congregation’s forgiveness for taking your eye off the ball.

If you’ve fallen prey to false doctrine and have given up believing what the Bible says about hell, repent of that sin before them, as well.

3. Pick two to three specific ways you will personally engage lost people every single week, and commit to it.

Eating at the same restaurant, going to the gym at the same time, etc. Pick something that works and stick with it.

4. Schedule a lunch meeting with at least one non-Christian a week.

Go find lost people attending your services. Lead them to Christ. Disciple them. Repeat. I have a senior-pastor friend who has a goal to lead at least one person to Christ every week.

5. If you have staff, lead them to commit to the same things you’re doing.

This includes asking for forgiveness, scheduling two to threee ways to engage the lost each week, and scheduling at least one lunch or breakfast each week with a non-Christian.

6. Ask the people on your governing board to do the same things you’re asking of yourself and your staff.

Make sure you adjust for the more limited nature of their schedule.

7. Don’t be lured into thinking that changing your church’s programs will ignite evangelism.

This is the biggest thing I stress with senior pastors I coach. Focus on preaching and teaching to change your people’s lives outside the building. You want them to start living evangelistically brave lives.
What pastors often do is say, “We need to reach the lost. Let’s fix our children’s ministry.” Listen, you’re NOT failing to reach the lost because you have a lame children’s ministry. You have a lame children’s ministry because you’re not reaching the lost. Programs change when people change.

8. Start preaching like there are lots of non-Christians in the room.

Share stories of people coming to Christ and the changes he’s making in their lives.

9. Create a simple vision-casting phrase that rallies the church around evangelism.

Recently we’ve begun using the phrase #PrayForOne. I first heard it from Bo Chancey at Manchester Christian Church and really resonated with it. I keep casting vision about how if we wake up each day and pray, “God, let me cross paths today with someone that needs you,” he’ll answer that prayer. We’ve begun using the hashtag #PrayForOne on all our social media communications, and encourage our people to do the same. Try it.

10. Expect the “I’m not being fed” crowd to surface, criticize you and then leave in droves.

Let them leave. Senior pastors of outreach-focused churches know they truly aren’t being effective until the self-centered churched people that transferred from other churches (like they have multiple times before) start leaving. Nothing brings sinful, narcissistic behavior to the forefront like obedience to God in evangelism.

11. Assemble and stay engaged with a group of three or four evangelistically brave pastors.

Hold each other accountable. And together, keep praying, “God give me your heart for people going to hell in my area.”
You do these things and watch what happens.
Remember, it will take roughly two years for your church to do a 180-degree turn, but don’t get discouraged and quit. You can do this.
Brian Jones is a church planter, author and the founding and senior pastor of Christ’s Church of the Valley in Philadelphia. This article was originally published on SeniorPastorCentral.com.

6 Soul Care Essentials For Pastors

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6 Soul Care Essentials For Pastors

By Charles Stone on Jun 11, 2017
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In the midst of caring for others, it is easy to neglect our own soul. What are safeguards that keep us from drifting away from God?

 Some time back I attended a two-day retreat with Keith Meyer sponsored by the Cornerstone Pastor’s Network. Keith is a pastor and author of several books on soul care including one honored in 2010 as one of the five best books for the leader’s inner life, Whole Like Transformation: Becoming the Change Your Church Needs. Keith challenged us with several great practices to take care of our soul. Here are the top five that grabbed my attention the most.
  • Our longing for Him must supersede our love for His ministry.
    So often our passion for Christ gets buried in our passion for our church or ministry. When that happens we stifle that vital connection to the Vine, our true source of joy and strength.
  • We must slow down enough to go God’s speed.
    And what is God’s speed? The speed of love and relationships. This one really struck me. Too often in my drive to accomplish my daily goals, I move so fast that I breeze by the relational connections that Jesus most wants me make.
  • When we pay attention to God throughout the day, we’re most open to divinely arranged interruptions.
    One way we can become more sensitive to Him is to ‘pray our day’ and ‘pray our events.’ That is, use your calendar items and task list as cues to pray for your meeting, lunch appointment, study time, or whatever you have planned for the day. When we do this everything becomes a cue to go to Him.
  • Memorize long transformative passages like Colossians 3, John 15, and Romans 12.
    Sometimes we memorize single Scripture verses and use them simply as ‘pills’ to treat our daily problems. Longer passages, however, can best transform our thinking.
  • Grace is not opposed to effort but to earning.
    This one originally came form Dallas Willard, USC philosophy professor and writer of some of the best books on spiritual formation. One of my favorites he wrote is Renovation of the Heart,a must-read for every pastor.
  • The acronym VIM captures the non-negotiables for spiritual transformation.
    ‘V’ stands for vision. ‘I’ stands for intention. ‘M’ stands for means. Again, Dallas Willard was the first to suggest this process. Here’s a great article that unpacks VIM.
What practices have most helped you care for your soul?

Dr. Charles Stone is Lead Pastor at West Park Church in London, Ontario, Canada, and the founder of StoneWell Ministries, a pastor coaching and church consulting ministry. He is the author of four books including, "People Pleasing Pastors: Avoiding the Pitfalls of Approval Motivated Leadership" (IVP 2014), and his most recent book, “Brain-Savvy Leaders: The Science of Significant Ministry” (Abingdon, May 2015).

Five Steps To Respond To A Hurtful And Hateful Email

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Five Steps To Respond To A Hurtful And Hateful Email

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“You have no business being the pastor of our church. All you are interested in is getting your own way and changing all the good things we have going. People are saying you should be fired. I agree with them.”

“You have no business being the pastor of our church. All you are interested in is getting your own way and changing all the good things we have going. People are saying you should be fired. I agree with them.”
Yes, it’s a real email.
Yes, it’s from a church member to a pastor.
The Internet has certainly brought us incredible ways to do commerce, to get information, and to communicate.
But it has an ugly and evil side to it as well.
It allows cowardly critics to hide behind a keyboard and cut people to the core through blogs, social media, and email.

So how do we respond when we get a hurtful email?

The pastor who received that cruel, cowardly, and vitriolic email asked me that question. Here is how I responded:
  1. Pray about it.
    Do not respond in a quick-tempered, fleshly anger. Give it to God. Let Him guide you. Pray for wisdom and pray for those who attack you.
     
  2. Wait.
    Some leaders work on the 24-hour rule. They will not respond to a hateful email immediately. Some wait longer. They are waiting on God. They are waiting to have a more tempered perspective. And they are waiting to get input from others.
     
  3. Get godly counsel.
    I was recently accused of plagiarism in an email, a first for me. I was incensed. After a time of prayer, I knew a part of my anger was due to my own pride and ego. I pride myself on writing original content, so the accusation of copying someone else really irked me. But I sought the wisdom of others. I eventually responded strongly, but nothing like my original thoughts. The wisdom of others saved me from writing something I would have likely regretted for a long time.
     
  4. Decide to respond or ignore.
    Not every email, tweet, blog post, or Facebook post is worthy of a response. Sometimes it’s just best not to engage the critic. That can be tough, because we so much desire to defend ourselves. But if you do respond, I recommend this next step.
     
  5. Call or meet with the critic if at all possible.
    I know it’s not always possible to have a verbal conversation with someone. But meeting face-to-face is ideal, and talking by telephone is better than a written response. Many critics are taken aback when they see the willingness of the person they attacked willing and desirous to meet with them.
Leadership is tough, particularly in the church. You will get those “nasty-grams” from time to time. Remember the wisdom of Proverbs: “A gentle answer turns away anger, but a harsh word stirs up wrath” (Proverbs 15:1).
It’s not always the easiest path, but sometimes it’s the best and most godly path.
Thom Rainer is the president of LifeWay Christian Resources and the co-author of Transformational Church: Creating a New Scorecard for Congregations.

7 Traits To Look For When Selecting A Leader For Your Church Or Organization

When you are needing a leader and the time has come to begin the selection process, do you know what you are looking for?  Is your plan “we will know it when we see it” or is the process more intentional?  If you are needing a plan, I want to help you.
A NFL quarterback is the most leadership-intensive position in all of pro sports.  In fact, 80% of 305 quarterbacks drafted since 1992 have flamed out.  Prior to this year’s NFL Draft, The Ringer’s Michael Lombardi wrote an incredible article entitled “Seven Habits For Drafting A Highly Effective Quarterback.” 
Lombardi’s concepts were drawn on years of working with Hall Of Fame coaches Bill Walsh and Bill Parcells.  As I read Lombardi’s thoughts, I realized they provided an excellent framework for selecting a leader in a church, non-profit, business, education, or athletic organization.
The following are 7 Traits To Look For When Selecting A Leader For Your Church Or Organization:
  1. Proven Track Record Of Success – Lombardi called it a “Winning Pedigree”.  The best indicator of future performance is past performance.  Parcells wanted a quarterback with at least 30 starts with 23 or more of those being wins.  This is an indicator they have faced adversity in the past.  A proven track record also shows they know how to succeed and then how to handle that same success.
  2. Resilience – They must be mentally, emotionally, and physically tough.  How does the leader deal with criticism and disappointment?  A leader must bounce back quickly from failure and learn from it.  Are they sickly?  Do they miss a lot of work?  Your best ability as a leader is your availability.
  3. Hard Work – The leader must set the standard in your organization for hard work.  Basketball announcer and former coach Jeff Van Gundy says, “Your best player has to set a tone of intolerance for anything that gets in the way of winning.”  Laziness, tardiness, and a lack of commitment are sure signs of future leadership failure.
  4. High Functional IQ – You cannot teach passion.  Do they read books?  Do they study to make themselves better?  Are they doing things without being asked to increase their skill set or do they have to be pushed?  Passivity is not an attractive leadership quality.  Successful leaders become experts in their field of discipline.
  5. Natural Talent – Lombardi calls this “The Crib Factor.”  For ministry positions, we would call this calling or anointing.  Are they born with natural leadership giftedness?  Do they have great instincts, hunger, people skills and ambition.
  6. Body Language – Most communication is non-verbal.  Do they have high-energy?  Many leaders look for people who walk fast.  Great leaders have a drive and sense of urgency that you can just feel.
  7. Charisma – Finally, are they a good teammate?  Do people enjoy being around them?  Do people want to work hard for them?  Do they elicit respect from their teammates?  Can they create a sense of loyalty from those they lead?
What do you look for when searching for a leader?
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